International Women's Day
Even our own country has a spotty record when it comes to equality
If you are a woman on this planet, you are more likely to be poor, more likely to be a victim of violence, more likely to be voiceless and more likely to be exploited. You are less likely to have access to education, services or corridors of power.
This reality – and the power dynamics that create and sustain it – is the central challenge we face in making poverty history. On International Women's Day tomorrow, it's important that we critically examine our progress toward that goal.
When we look at those who earn less than $1 a day globally, 70 per cent are women. Of the 80 million children who aren't in school, most are girls. Every day, 1,400 women die needlessly in pregnancy and childbirth. One in five women will be a victim of rape or attempted rape in her lifetime. Women are overrepresented among the 8,000 people who die every day as a result of the AIDS pandemic, mostly in the world's poorest countries.
More than half the world's food is produced by women, rising to 80 per cent in many developing countries, yet tradition, laws and discrimination mean many women cannot own land, access credit or control the fruits of their labour. It is women and girls who have first felt the brunt of climate change as they spend a growing number of hours each day walking ever farther to fetch water and firewood.
Oxfam works with courageous, creative women around the world who are making a real difference to this grim picture – supporting women farmers and factory workers to defend their rights and improve their incomes, helping stop the spread of HIV and AIDS by ending violence against women, promoting women's leadership in peace-building and in preventing and responding to humanitarian crises made worse by conflict and climate change.
These groups are not only working to increase women's access to resources and the tools they need to support themselves and their families and communities. They are working as well to tackle the policies and practices of governments and corporations that deny women their rights and benefit from their unpaid or underpaid labour – changing laws, improving public services and enforcing protection for workers.
They also strive to change the beliefs and behaviours that undermine women's equality – in the bed, in the home, on the streets and in the legislature and courts. This entails a transformation not only of the attitudes and actions of individuals but also a shift in our culture and norms as a society.
In every case, this work is grounded in women's rights. It's not about charity. It's not about political correctness. It's not just that the impact is likely to be much greater when you secure women's participation in planning and implementing change.
It's that until respect for women's rights is central to who we are, how we treat each other, how we organize markets and production, and how we choose to govern ourselves, the prospects for making substantive and sustainable progress in ending poverty and injustice are doomed.
As Canadians, we pride ourselves on the progress we've made to recognize and promote women's rights and equality among women and men. But our record is spotty at best. Women in Canada, too, are more likely to be poor, earn less than men and find themselves the victim of violence. The horrific experience of the disappeared women of Vancouver, Edmonton and elsewhere haunts us.
Women with whom we work in Zimbabwe, in Guatemala, in Ethiopia can't quite believe that in a country as rich as Canada we have women in aboriginal communities and elsewhere across this country who can't exercise their right to access basic services. They wonder how they can overcome huge barriers in their own countries when they see a country such as Canada stepping back from its obligations to ensure women's rights are respected.
The removal of equality from the mandate of the Status of Women department, the gutting of its budget and the closure of most offices sends a chill down the spines of women around the globe who are committed to ending discrimination. Equally disturbing is the prohibition on federal funding to support advocacy and campaigning on women's rights. These actions, after eliminating the Court Challenges program that played such a key role in protecting women's and minority rights, send exactly the wrong signal to the world about Canada's commitment to promoting full respect for women's rights.
When combined with the reversal of the national child-care program and other actions, it seriously undermines Canada's progress toward meeting its obligations under the United Nations Convention to Eliminate all Forms of Discrimination against Women.
We want a world in which women affirm their own power and their ability to stand up and speak out. We want a world in which women's work is acknowledged and fairly compensated. We want a world in which women's authority matches their responsibilities, and their rights are respected and celebrated.
Robert Fox is executive director of Oxfam Canada.
posted by That which is called Darren at 10:54 AM
6 Comments:
Altough it is even "positive",it is a discrimination created between men and women. i think we are just supposed to talk about "human rights".
This article is a dance between rational and crazy. The author gets carried away with his rhetoric on several occasions. Comparing the plight of women in Zimbabwe to women in aboriginal communities in Canada is absurb and insulting. Reading this, makes me question the director's ability to prioritize and direct funds to the people who need them the most. I would now hesitate to support Oxfam as a result of reading this article.
Yes, it would be absurd if he actually did that. Perhaps your hesitation would be mitigated if you read more carefully.
Looking at the quotation:
"Women with whom we work in Zimbabwe, in Guatemala, in Ethiopia can't quite believe that in a country as rich as Canada we have women in aboriginal communities and elsewhere across this country who can't exercise their right to access basic services. They wonder how they can overcome huge barriers in their own countries when they see a country such as Canada stepping back from its obligations to ensure women's rights are respected."
He does not actually compare the two. He reported statements by other women, and those statements are logical.
Perhaps give me quoted citations that you deem 'crazy' to support a stance that currently makes little sense to me.
"We are not the rats that have been tested on.
Just leave us alone"
and Third World Countries said...
A break down of the crazy:
“It is women and girls who have first felt the brunt of climate change as they spend a growing number of hours each day walking ever farther to fetch water and firewood.”
Climate Change has nothing to do with this and the head of an international aid organization should know that. This is just a case of human activity over stressing the environment and depleting local resources. This is a process that has occurred in various parts of the world for thousands of years. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desertification http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deforestation on Wiki. I can charitably interpret his statement as ignorance of the science behind the field he is administering or a disingenuous exploitation of public concern over climate change. Either way it reflects badly on him.
“Oxfam works with courageous, creative women around the world who are making a real difference to this grim picture – supporting women farmers and factory workers to defend their rights and improve their incomes, helping stop the spread of HIV and AIDS by ending violence against women, promoting women's leadership in peace-building and in preventing and responding to humanitarian crises made worse by conflict and climate change.”
There is that climate change again. This whole paragraph uses a lot of appealing words and ideas but makes little sense. I don see how stopping the spread of HIV will occur by ending violence against women unless you are talking about rape. Why can’t we end violence against women just for the sake of ending violence against women? This paragraph doesn’t give me confidence in his ability to isolate and cope with complicated issues.
“In every case, this work is grounded in women's rights. It's not about charity. It's not about political correctness. It's not just that the impact is likely to be much greater when you secure women's participation in planning and implementing change.” Here he just wants to distance himself from the terms politically correct and charity which have fallen out of favor.
“It's that until respect for women's rights is central to who we are, how we treat each other, how we organize markets and production, and how we choose to govern ourselves, the prospects for making substantive and sustainable progress in ending poverty and injustice are doomed.”
Okay I agree women’s rights are important, but they are not that important. The world does not and should not revolve around women’s rights. First we should be concerned about the welfare of people as a whole and then consider whether women are being unnecessarily or unfairly burdened by policy or convention. He is making women’s rights out to be an absolute, a sacred cow; this is another example of emotive, unclear thinking.
“As Canadians, we pride ourselves on the progress we've made to recognize and promote women's rights and equality among women and men. But our record is spotty at best.”
Compared to whose record? Compared to what standard? Contrary to popular belief no God on high ever gave us a convenient user manual of how to treat each other. We have had to figure out how to treat each other on our own. Human rights and women’s rights are relatively new inventions and ones we haven’t perfected yet. By today’s standards of course Canadians of past were barbarous, that’s a logical consequence of progress.
“Women in Canada, too, are more likely to be poor, earn less than men and find themselves the victim of violence. The horrific experience of the disappeared women of Vancouver, Edmonton and elsewhere haunts us.”
This may not be due to a lack of rights, as long as there is physical violence, those who are less able to physically defend themselves, are more likely to become victims. As for earning less than man, it may just be that all things being equal women are more inclined to focus less on the accumulation of wealth and power and more on family than men. As long as the women who want to compete are given the opportunity who are we to say that society is not well unless women are as competitive and lustful as men.
“Women with whom we work in Zimbabwe, in Guatemala, in Ethiopia can't quite believe that in a country as rich as Canada we have women in aboriginal communities and elsewhere across this country who can't exercise their right to access basic services.”
First who is telling women in Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia about women in Canada? I thought Oxfam was trying to feed and educate people, not tell them how lucky they are. You may be surprised to learn that when I was born, my father was unemployed and we were living in a trailer, in an aboriginal community far from some of the “basic services” Mr. Fox is likely claiming that women in Aboriginal communities lack. Still we had access to social services, emergency health care (by ambulance or medivac) and social mobility that women in Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia could only envy and dream of. My point is this, women in those trouble countries are not authorities on the plight of aboriginal women in Canada. They only know what Oxfam workers have told them about the issue so why report it? Because of the absurd juxtaposition that’s why. Mr. Fox is implying through rhetoric that women in aboriginal communities are pitiable by women in countries like Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia. A notion I can tell you as a person who has lived on and visited multiple aboriginal communities, is absurd.
“The removal of equality from the mandate of the Status of Women department, the gutting of its budget and the closure of most offices sends a chill down the spines of women around the globe who are committed to ending discrimination.”
I didn’t realize amount of expensive bureaucracy is directly proportional to rights. Just because a department has a catchy name doesn’t mean it is effective.
“Equally disturbing is the prohibition on federal funding to support advocacy and campaigning on women's rights.”
Okay, read this carefully and think what he means. The federal government is refusing to spend money on expense advertising promoting woman’s rights in Canada. I think this is fiscally responsible maybe they could spend the money on helping people instead of paying advertisement companies to tell us what we already know.
“These actions, after eliminating the Court Challenges program that played such a key role in protecting women's and minority rights, send exactly the wrong signal to the world about Canada's commitment to promoting full respect for women's rights.”
Okay, they may have eliminated federal funding for the Court Challenges program but the program still exists and more importantly so do the rights the program assisted cases defending. There are still lots of other organization and methods of funding court challenges. I have a hard time believing that this will lend to gross violations of rights in Canada being unheard. It certainly doesn’t reduce us to a Zimbabwe.
“When combined with the reversal of the national child-care program and other actions, it seriously undermines Canada's progress toward meeting its obligations under the United Nations Convention to Eliminate all Forms of Discrimination against Women.”
National child-care tax rebate instead of federally funded program ? Discrimination against Women, Of Course, it all makes sense!!
“To achieve this vision, fundamental changes are needed. And in that process, Canada should be showing leadership. Nothing less should be good enough.” Canada does show leadership on woman’s rights and human rights. Wake up Mr. Fox.
My point is not that he is completely wrong. It is that he gets carried away with his rhetoric and seems emotive and irrational. He seems unable to quantitatively distinguish the magnitude of different wrongs and sufferings. I would not trust such a person to lead an international organization and distribute funding in an effective manner.
Xander,
Before I go through the points you raise, I wanted to point out that when two people debate the words of a third, there can’t help but be a lack of information as we don’t know the intentions behind many of the statements. I try to stick to the denotative or most likely meaning of words being used (a perilous but still the most appropriate path).The only person who might be able to answer those queries is Mr. Fox.
The quick summary is that some things I think you are wrong about while others we just disagree about. Many of these disagreements then lead to statements I consider incorrect and subsequently argue against.
I’m going to start with your final thoughts and then go through your interpretations of Robert’s piece followed by my analysis.
Your thoughts:
“My point is not that he is completely wrong.” We agree. Very few people are completely wrong about anything.
“It is that he gets carried away with his rhetoric and seems emotive and irrational.”
I would say he gets emotive, but it isn’t necessarily irrational. This is explored further below.
“He seems unable to quantitatively distinguish the magnitude of different wrongs and sufferings.”
I’m not sure if he can or not, that is an empirical question, but in general terms I believe he could. Most would agree murder is worse than theft. But would most agree that murder is a 9/10 and theft a 2/10 on a scale of badness? What about theft being 3/10? Well, what was stolen? One can see a multitude of problem here.
Additionally, I believe most people do not think in numbers. I know I think more quantitatively than most, but I’d be lying if I said I truly thought in equations when discussing suffering.
“I would not trust such a person to lead an international organization and distribute funding in an effective manner.”
Obviously that is your free choice. From my experiences, I feel differently.
I would then ask whom do you trust? Which organization(s) do you support and why? Seriously, perhaps you know a better charity/NGO than I do.
As I see it you used 12 quotations (1, 2, 3) from the article followed by your analysis which will be followed by my analysis (1a, 2a) so I’ll number them accordingly. On to his words and your comments:
(1) “It is women and girls who have first felt the brunt of climate change as they spend a growing number of hours each day walking ever farther to fetch water and firewood.”
(1a) You said “Climate Change has nothing to do with this and the head of an international aid organization should know that. This is just a case of human activity over stressing the environment and depleting local resources. This is a process that has occurred in various parts of the world for thousands of years. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desertification http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deforestation on Wiki. I can charitably interpret his statement as ignorance of the science behind the field he is administering or a disingenuous exploitation of public concern over climate change. Either way it reflects badly on him.”
Basically, I think you completely misread what he wrote. No where did Fox say why climate change was occurring. You seem to confuse what climate change is, with who might be differentially affected. Two examples: (a) It is Antarctica that has felt the brunt of ozone depletion, with the largest hole in the ozone often above its landmass. This is just a true statement. It says nothing about causality. And if one were living in Antarctica they would be differentially affected by ozone depletion. This is obvious.
(b) Bangladesh will be affected much more so than Canada will if sea levels rise. In fact, they might be under water while we just lose a little coast. Again this is a fact, and the implications are obvious: some regions/peoples will be differentially affected. Your point makes no sense.
(2) “Oxfam works with courageous, creative women around the world who are making a real difference to this grim picture – supporting women farmers and factory workers to defend their rights and improve their incomes, helping stop the spread of HIV and AIDS by ending violence against women, promoting women's leadership in peace-building and in preventing and responding to humanitarian crises made worse by conflict and climate change.”
(2a) You wrote: “There is that climate change again.” See above paragraph.
You also wrote: “This whole paragraph uses a lot of appealing words and ideas but makes little sense. I don see how stopping the spread of HIV will occur by ending violence against women unless you are talking about rape. Why can’t we end violence against women just for the sake of ending violence against women? This paragraph doesn’t give me confidence in his ability to isolate and cope with complicated issues.
Let’s look at Fox’s paragraph with my comments in parentheses:
“Oxfam works with courageous, creative women [true] around the world [true] who are making a real difference to this grim picture [true] – supporting women farmers [true] and factory workers [true] to defend their rights [true] and improve their incomes [true], helping stop the spread of HIV and AIDS by ending violence against women [true], promoting women's leadership in peace-building [true] and in preventing and responding to humanitarian crises made worse by conflict [true] and climate change [true].
So you see something that makes little sense, I see at least 11 true statements. Fox is describing some of the activities of Oxfam Canada. I risk being presumptuous, but I doubt you actually know what they are doing.
Secondly, why couldn’t he be talking about rape? When living in a culture of violence and impunity, and where consent is not a right, there are numerous impacts to such an environment. Thirdly, he doesn’t say we shouldn’t end violence against women for its own sake, you are making an improper deduction. His exact words are “…helping stop the spread of HIV and AIDS by ending violence against women…” I see a link between violence and the spread of HIV. If you do not, that is your opinion.
Finally, because I believe your final comments now have little support, I would say one should be cautious estimating their own ability to assess complicated issues.
(3) “In every case, this work is grounded in women's rights. It's not about charity. It's not about political correctness. It's not just that the impact is likely to be much greater when you secure women's participation in planning and implementing change.”
(3a) Here he just wants to distance himself from the terms politically correct and charity which have fallen out of favor.
I would say this is possibly true. But one would have to ask him. Perhaps he truly doesn’t think it is about charity or political correctness. You are being presumptuous. Secondly, his last sentence is a true one. Change is greater when women are involved.
(4) “It's that until respect for women's rights is central to who we are, how we treat each other, how we organize markets and production, and how we choose to govern ourselves, the prospects for making substantive and sustainable progress in ending poverty and injustice are doomed.”
(4a) I’ll analyze your comments sentence by sentence.
(i) “Okay I agree women’s rights are important, but they are not that important.”
I highly disagree. They actually are that important. I really think you are unaware of the various situations in the world which validate Fox’s statement. I guess it’ll be your stats versus mine.
(ii) ”The world does not and should not revolve around women’s rights.”
True and true. (The world should revolve around it’s centre of gravity and molten core:P)
(iii) “First we should be concerned about the welfare of people as a whole and then consider whether women are being unnecessarily or unfairly burdened by policy or convention.”
You are correct, but your flaw is that this has been done to a certain degree. People are concerned about people as a whole and then it has been discovered that women are in fact being unfairly burdened by both policy and convention. This is exactly why it is important to focus on women’s rights.
Secondly, last time I checked, women are human. Thus if you support women’s rights, you do support human rights. The reason for the focus on women’s rights is that for ‘some reason’ old men in power don’t seem to care too much about women. It is precisely because women are differentially disadvantaged that extra focus is required.
(iv)”He is making women’s rights out to be an absolute, a sacred cow; this is another example of emotive, unclear thinking.”
Perhaps he is. You’d have to ask him. I disagree with your interpretation. Secondly, why say ‘sacred cow’ he didn’t specify Hindu women? :P
Lastly, honestly, your words for Mr. Fox are more representative of your own comments than his initial words.
(5) “As Canadians, we pride ourselves on the progress we've made to recognize and promote women's rights and equality among women and men. But our record is spotty at best.”
(5a) You wrote: “Compared to whose record? Compared to what standard? Contrary to popular belief no God on high ever gave us a convenient user manual of how to treat each other. We have had to figure out how to treat each other on our own. Human rights and women’s rights are relatively new inventions and ones we haven’t perfected yet. By today’s standards of course Canadians of past were barbarous, that’s a logical consequence of progress.”
You are correct in that he doesn’t offer a specific comparison. Again, one would have to ask him. I took it to mean in comparison to how Canadians see ourselves. This is another situation in which one can’t be sure.
(6) “Women in Canada, too, are more likely to be poor, earn less than men and find themselves the victim of violence. The horrific experience of the disappeared women of Vancouver, Edmonton and elsewhere haunts us.”
(6a) Again, sentence by sentence:
(i) “This may not be due to a lack of rights, as long as there is physical violence, those who are less able to physically defend themselves, are more likely to become victims.”
True, and the conclusion I reach is that those people should be protected accordingly. Your words aren’t clear, but it comes across as, “well, what are you doing to do?”
(ii) “As for earning less than man, it may just be that all things being equal women are more inclined to focus less on the accumulation of wealth and power and more on family than men.”
Many things may be, but in fact aren’t. You don’t offer any support for your claim and based on my readings, I would say differential wealth accumulation strategies do not account for the discrepancy.
(iii) “As long as the women who want to compete are given the opportunity who are we to say that society is not well unless women are as competitive and lustful as men.”
You aren’t anyone or are someone. Basically, people can say what they want. I would just disagree that women are given the same opportunity.
(7)“Women with whom we work in Zimbabwe, in Guatemala, in Ethiopia can't quite believe that in a country as rich as Canada we have women in aboriginal communities and elsewhere across this country who can't exercise their right to access basic services.”
(7a) Again, point by point:
(i) “First who is telling women in Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia about women in Canada?”
That is an empirical question. I would cautiously assume Oxfam members are sharing information with their partner groups in such countries. Who knows, they may even get international news once in a while.
(ii) “I thought Oxfam was trying to feed and educate people, not tell them how lucky they are.”
This statement, though true, is argumentatively useless. Do you seriously think one shouldn’t talk to people while feeding them? Or what is your definition of education? Of course it is useful for a Canadian organization to discuss human rights issues in Canada. Social justice is all very connected. Additionally, it isn’t as if such information comes at the exclusion of all others. Would you seriously take issue with someone mentioning, in say 2-5 minutes the plight of aboriginal communities? I disagree with you entirely.
(iii) “You may be surprised to learn that when I was born, my father was unemployed and we were living in a trailer, in an aboriginal community far from some of the “basic services” Mr. Fox is likely claiming that women in Aboriginal communities lack.”
I was surprised, but if you think aboriginal communities are not worse off than nearly every other group/area in Canada I think you are completely wrong. Again, your stats versus mine.
(iv) “Still we had access to social services, emergency health care (by ambulance or medivac) and social mobility that women in Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia could only envy and dream of.”
True. But again, you are missing the point. It is true that life for many in Zimbabwe is atrocious, but that doesn’t mean that life in aboriginal communities isn’t terrible. Secondly, and I’m sure you’ve done this in Japan, one almost instinctually corrects misunderstandings about one’s own country. Many people think Canada is very cold, or has a larger population than is does, or that they can drive across it in a couple days. These things aren’t true. Similarly, life is aboriginal communities isn’t great. We might just disagree on this.
(v) “My point is this, women in those trouble countries are not authorities on the plight of aboriginal women in Canada.”
No they aren’t. Technically, Fox never said they were.
(vi) “They only know what Oxfam workers have told them about the issue so why report it? Because of the absurd juxtaposition that’s why. Mr. Fox is implying through rhetoric that women in aboriginal communities are pitiable by women in countries like Zimbabwe, Guatemala and Ethiopia.”
Not quite. The words he used were “…can't quite believe…” This does not meant he pity Canadians. Just that they are shocked. I believe this to be true.
(vii) “A notion I can tell you as a person who has lived on and visited multiple aboriginal communities, is absurd.”
Again, I believe differently. So it goes.
(8) “The removal of equality from the mandate of the Status of Women department, the gutting of its budget and the closure of most offices sends a chill down the spines of women around the globe who are committed to ending discrimination.”
(8a) “I didn’t realize amount of expensive bureaucracy is directly proportional to rights.”
No one said it did. But it is true that with less offices open, less services will be offered.
“Just because a department has a catchy name doesn’t mean it is effective.”
Very true. But again, you haven’t disproved his point. And since he technically only said “…sends a chill down the spines of women…” one would only have to find more than one woman that experienced a chill. More realistically, I think many women were disconcerted by the aforementioned development.
(9) “Equally disturbing is the prohibition on federal funding to support advocacy and campaigning on women's rights.”
(9a)
(i) “Okay, read this carefully and think what he means.”
Okay, I believe I did.
(ii) “The federal government is refusing to spend money on expense advertising promoting woman’s rights in Canada. I think this is fiscally responsible maybe they could spend the money on helping people instead of paying advertisement companies to tell us what we already know.”
Ah, but as women’s rights aren’t fully implemented, there needs to be more done. One of the ways for this is through advertising. I think we can both admit we have little specific knowledge regarding the success of this particular federal agency.
(10) “These actions, after eliminating the Court Challenges program that played such a key role in protecting women's and minority rights, send exactly the wrong signal to the world about Canada's commitment to promoting full respect for women's rights.”
(10a)
(i) “Okay, they may have eliminated federal funding for the Court Challenges program but the program still exists and more importantly so do the rights the program assisted cases defending.”
But not necessarily in the same manner nor degree. I’d have to research this more to debate more intensely.
(ii) “There are still lots of other organization and methods of funding court challenges. I have a hard time believing that this will lend to gross violations of rights in Canada being unheard. It certainly doesn’t reduce us to a Zimbabwe.”
Again, no one said it did. You are inferring numerous statements/deductions which were never made nor implied. Obviously that is my contention, but I still stand by it. He only said it will send the ‘wrong signal’ and this is another empirical question. One would have to survey the world and ask what they think. You seem to presume the answer.
(11) “When combined with the reversal of the national child-care program and other actions, it seriously undermines Canada's progress toward meeting its obligations under the United Nations Convention to Eliminate all Forms of Discrimination against Women.”
(11a) “National child-care tax rebate Discrimination against Women, ? instead of federally funded program Of Course, it all makes sense!!”
Do you eve know what the UNCEF says? I believe what Fox wrote is accurate. I don’t see the validity of your words. (This could be because of font differences and excluded text, but I doubt it)
(12)“To achieve this vision, fundamental changes are needed. And in that process, Canada should be showing leadership. Nothing less should be good enough.”
(12a) “Canada does show leadership on woman’s rights and human rights. Wake up Mr. Fox.”
One could say that he should have said ‘more’ leadership. I’ll give you that. But one could argue for what leadership means and we are behind other European countries. I won’t make that argument but instead say that I think you are being unnecessarily picky.
Your final comments were already addressed at the beginning of my post.
In summation, sometimes we just disagreed and there are many empirical questions to be answered. Mostly though, I think you made spurious and specious arguments mainly based on invalid inferences. I realize that I was very picky (even though I accused you of it), but I think it is warranted.
I still don’t know why you felt so strongly about so many supposed misstatements – which, in my most charitable lens, I could see something thinking were covertly incorrect. True, just because someone cares and has good intentions does not mean their behaviour is good/useful. If I come across new information that invalidates my arguments, I will change my stances accordingly.
As your friend, I think I should be honest and say that you made many cognitive missteps in your commentary and come across as uncaring, pedantic and irrational. Though you are welcome to respond to my post, it is unlikely I will subsequently respond to that potential new post.
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